For those who want to learn how to hypnotize someone in a conversation and want to try it now, I will quickly tell you what you can do based on my experience with my girlfriend. I’m sharing this because I know many of you have a partner who sometimes (or often times) annoys you and you wish you could somehow persuade him/her to be more interested in what YOU like to do. Wouldn’t it be great if you can do that? Of course it would!
Okay, the following is what I do sometimes to my girlfriend as she is the one I practice my conversational hypnosis techniques with the most often.
1. Create a Nice and Relax Ambiance
Hypnosis normally does NOT work on people who are stressed and/or not willing to be hypnotized. This does not mean they need to know they will be hypnotized but it’s important to make your partner relaxed and open to the conversation with you. This can be done at anytime of the day but it would make more sense to do that at night or weekends (whenever your partner can relax well). Also it would work better if you dim down the room lights or use candle lights (just like creating romantic ambiance for your partner).
2. Affection is The Basis to Work On
Whether your partner is your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband, you guys are still together because there is LOVE between you. Your partner may annoy heck out of you but he/she still has certain affection towards you and is subconsciously hoping to have a better and more beautiful relationship with you so that’s the basis to work on.
3. Have A Happy Conversation and Make Your Partner Feel Good (Creating Rapport)
Bring up various positive subjects and also let your partner talk about what he/she wants to talk about in order to make your partner feel good. This may work better with women as they normally love to talk more than men. It’s also important to have a nice and meaningful conversation to get her into a desired state of mind.
4. Make Powerful Hypnotic Suggestions to Your Partner’s Subconscious Mind
Once your partner is well relaxed and in happy mood, his/her subconscious mind becomes wide open to any suggestions that you would make. This is the time to make a powerful hypnotic suggestions in the form of quote.
Let’s say you love fly fishing but your partner has no interest in it. Now, what you can do is making suggestions about fly fishing in the conversation like “I just remember Mike told me at work today that he loves to tryfly fishing with me.” You need to make this kind of suggestion naturally, then quickly go back to the conversation you were having with your partner to avoid suspicion. After that repeat the same or similar suggestions in your conversation several times.
If you do this right, your wife will be interested in fly fishing without knowing why and end up going for fishing with you or watching fishing TV programs with you!
I have done it quite a few times to my girlfriend. I must admit that it did not work when I first started to practice but now I can do it successfully pretty much every time.
Is Conversational Hypnosis that Simple?
It takes practice to hypnotize someone, especially if you’re trying to learn how to hypnotize someone on your own. There are many good study materials on both online and offline so do some research and take action! Click here for one that I recommend.
This is the video showing a perfect example of how to hypnotize someone using conversational hypnosis. I must say this English guy, Derren Brown is the master of hypnosis, NLP, mind control or whatever you call it so to reach his level, you obviously need to have a lot of practice. I wonder if you would feel so powerful when you get to his level of conversational hypnosis… All you need to do is learn and understand all about conversational hypnosis through a good study material and then keep on practicing just like I’ve been doing.
You may be wondering how long it would take to be able to hypnotize someone just like the video… Well, that really depends on your practice, confidence and perhaps your communication ability. One your own, you’ll would most likely need years of practicing but if you are a decent communicator and naturally confident person, it should not take long to successfully use some of the techniques in your everyday life. Your learning curve is cut big time if you learn from experienced hypnotists. Click here to watch a free video that will get you started.
Okay, let’s talk about how hypnosis works. It’s pretty amazing really (that’s what i thought when i found out about it). Let’s say I’m hypnotizing my girlfriend… What I need to do is lead her into a trans like state where she becomes totally unaware of current situation.
When this happens, she becomes more relaxed and suggestible to me (hypnotist). You maybe wondering how the heck it happens? Why is my girlfriend in the hypnotic state willing to do whatever being asked to do?
Have you ever heard of Dr. Milton Erickson? He is known as one of the greatest master hypnotists in 20th century, who discovered this particular hypnosis method called “conversational hypnosis”. He found out that people actually hypnotize themselves pretty much everyday without realizing it.
This happens to me too almost everyday, like when I’m watching dvd movies, listening to my favorite piece of music with my iPod or even when I’m day dreaming for a minute in a park under a ray of sunshine… What happens is that people get so into it so much, they become unaware of what’s happening in the real surroundings. Hypnosis can be defined as a mental state between your sleep and wakeful state.
Now it’s important to understand conscious and subconscious mind and how they work if you want to learn how to hypnotize someone. When my girlfriend goes to hypnotic state, her subconscious mind can directly be accessed by me (my suggestions).
If you are in conscious state, you are basically aware of your thoughts, everything that is happening around you and things you do to yourself and others. Those things happen because your subconscious mind give orders to your conscious mind to execute things in life, which you are fully aware of. This includes things that you do very often such as your physical habits and they are automatically handled by subconscious mind. This means that your subconscious mind hold the true power behind all operations in your everyday life.
Back to my example. When my girlfriend is in a hypnotic state, her subconscious mind gets wide open and ready to receive any information directly from me while her conscious mind gets a lot less active. Because her subconscious mind holds all incoming information coming from me, I can even change some of the information that are already stored in her mind. This is a hypnotic technique that hypnotherapists use to fix people’s bad habits.
Hi, I'm Jacob Peterson and I'm a young "soon-to-be" hypnotist. I am still learning and practicing but I've certainly learned to hypnotize someone in a actual conversation and experimenting in various occasions. I just made this blog to share some of my knowledge so hope you'll like it.
